November 4

Do not rebuke an older man, but appeal to him as to a father. Treat younger men as brothers, — 1 Tim 5:1 BSB

It takes a great deal of wisdom and tact to point out someone’s faults in a way that leads to growth. Most people do not take reproof or criticism well. Many react defensively or feel hurt when their mistakes are pointed out. Even children, who you’d think would appreciate correction from their parents, often resent it.

If we could only see how beneficial it is to have our faults revealed, we would welcome such insights. But pride makes us sensitive to criticism. Therefore, we must be wise and gentle when offering correction. Some people are too blunt, delivering reproof without considering the other person’s feelings. Paul advised that even when correcting an elder, it should be done with gentleness, not harshness.