December 8

My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger, — Jas 1:19 BSB

We should think twice before we speak. When we’re feeling upset or unkind, some say we should count to ten before we open our mouths. Yet in moments of heightened emotion, hasty words often slip out before we’ve had a chance to reflect. These sharp words can fly like darts, piercing the heart of someone we love.

Sadly, these hurtful words are often spoken between those closest to us. We control our speech fairly well when we’re dealing with strangers or acquaintances, but we tend to be less careful with those we love most. Our weariness or frustration makes us irritable, and we lash out with words we later regret. Though these words may be forgiven—because love forgives again and again—the wounds they leave often remain.