Self-reliance is often taught as a virtue, and in a certain context, it can be. Observation and experience show that it’s a significant force in the world. A person who doubts their abilities, who is unsure of their purpose, hesitates, trembles, falters, and fails; their lack of confidence leads to disappointment.

On the other hand, the self-reliant person hopes, plans, resolves, perseveres, and succeeds; their confidence in victory is a key reason for their triumph. When someone believes in their own abilities, they gradually convince others that they are right—unless they’re completely empty inside.