October 7

Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands, so that even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as a delicate vessel, and with honor as fellow heirs of the gracious gift of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered. — 1 Pet 3:1,7 BSB

The teachings of Christ apply to everyone.

In this passage, there are specific instructions for both wives and husbands. A Christian wife should desire to win her husband for Christ, not by constantly pressuring him, but by living a life so beautiful and Christ-like that her husband cannot help but notice the power of Christ in her.

It’s perfectly fine for a wife to dress beautifully, but the most powerful influence she can have isn’t through her appearance. True beauty comes from her character—what Peter calls “the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit.”

There’s also a message for husbands. They are to be gentle, patient, kind, and thoughtful, using their strength to care for and support their wives.

In this teaching lies one of the secrets to a happy marriage.